I am truly sorry for the last Question I asked. Its like this. ?

My daughter (26) came up to help me with my two granddaughters for 3 days.(Its my oldest Daughter 38th and she hasnt had a night without children since march 2006.) She use to live here and met up with Friends. She should not have driven after visiting and Drinking with Friends! I would have gotten her.Big mistake. Her head light was out and she ped the test but failed the Blower. Her Boyfriend Drinks and Drives which has been an issue in the past for her with him.She rarely drinks and NEVER Drives if she has been drinking.There has been some family and friend deaths in the past month and she landed back in a safe place with support from Friends and Messed up! She let her guard down and her good judgement along with it. The officers were kind and let her call me to get her car. She will be $$$Paying for this for Years She is Ashamed and very aware of what could have Happened. Thank God nothing did. Her Boyfriend is Very Loudly verbal and she has No idea how to talk to him about what happened. She goes home Monday night. She is totally cool with having to Pay for her mistakes and Knows it wont be easy. We have been online reading what is to come and it is So shocking the financial burden it will take on her. She (again) is OK with it as she Knows she Messed up. I dont know how to help her with the words.. I told her it could Break their relationship. They have been together for years and I have always thought he should get counciling for his Quick temper and NO empathy. I just needed some help to Help her. Please dont slam me I wrote the first guestion with a 7 month old wimpering from her first tooth and her siste (31/2) saying Grandma lets go walking to find Santa cause its snowing and this is where Santa lives isnt it?. My Heart is in the right place and I know I cant meet everyone needs but I will try till and cant anymore.So if anyone has some positive feed back so I can try to help her I would appreciate the words that my help when she either calls him or gets home. I personally think he will be an As...! Thanks for your time . My last Question was under Family and Relationships single and dating and I am Not sure if this is the right place either Janet